Be her best friend through this:

    1. Reassure her of your friendship and concern
    2. Listen as she talks about her feelings and plans
    3. Affirm your confidence in her
    4. Avoid blame or having a condemning attitude
    5. Encourage her to make rational, thoughtful decisions
    6. Respect her feelings about the baby’s father
    7. Help her make a list of pro’s and cons for her options

Anyone can offer advice, but real wisdom and counsel from those who understand the unique dynamics of an unplanned pregnancy is what she needs. What she is going through is not easy, and there are no simple answers. Encourage her to make an appointment at Pregnancy Care Clinic.