So you think she might be pregnant?

If your girlfriend or wife took a positive pregnancy test or missed her period, here’s some quick advice that may be of benefit to you right now:

THE DO’S

Listen. The pregnancy situation involves more than just you. There are now three lives to think about.
Stay Calm. She needs your support as a boyfriend or husband now more than ever. She may be carrying the baby, but you are both parents, and regardless of your relationship in the future, that baby needs you too.
Talk About it. Not only with each other, but prepare to talk with parents and others close to the situation. Hiding the news from people who can genuinely help you only increases the stress.
Express yourself honestly. It’s normal to have feelings of anger, frustration and fear. But make sure she knows she is not alone.
Gather all the facts. Get all the information and seek wise counsel so you can make the best decision for both of you.

THE DON’T

Don’t bail. The more you run from this, the harder it becomes to think and act clearly.
Don’t pressure her. Applying pressure will only push her away and possibly into a regretful situation. Work together as a team.
Don’t forget. You have a very active role in this situation. Listen to input as well as give your thoughts.

WE CAN HELP YOU TOO.

Our clinic offers peer counseling and accurate information about all pregnancy options for you also.

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East County Pregnancy Care Clinic

Call: 619-442-4357
677 S. Magnolia Ave
El Cajon, CA 92020

Hours of Operation

Tuesdays : 11am – 7pm
Wednesdays: 11am – 6pm
Thursday: 10am – 6pm
Friday: 11am – 4pm

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San Diego

Call: 619-326-8595
4130 Alpha Street
San Diego, CA 92113

Hours of Operation

Mondays: 10am – 4pm
Tuesdays : 10am – 5pm
Wednesdays: 10am – 5pm

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